There is no perfect relationship. In the close to perfect relationships, there are no two persons who share exact same values. A relationship or marriage is a world of two contrasting people who, despite their differences, strive to make things right among themselves.
If your relationship is one with enduring and tolerance – tolerance could be of red flags – then you need to have a rethink. You might be in a situationship.
No one has the right to treat you less human. You are more amazing than you give yourself credit for.
Here are ways to know your partner is losing interest in you:
1. They barely want to spend time with you: They always give excuses as to why they need to be away from you.
2. They forget little details they once sang to you: Details could be your anniversary dates, birthdays, and other important dates that mattered to the both of you.
3. They are always overprotective of their personal things. When a partner becomes secretive to a point of denying access to what you both once shared together, something might be wrong behind closed curtains.
4. They are easily irritated of your presence: A tired partner wouldn't see good in any effort you make in gifts, texts or calls. Your presence brings a stomach gorgle to them.
5. They complain about almost everything: They complain about your little flaws, berate and shame you at the slightest of opportunities.
6. They run from intimacy of any sort – could be a good morning hug, unexpected hugs, or rubs to the back.
There is a saying that goes this way; "You cannot change anyone, you can only love them."
If you try to adjust a few bolts in yourself and they are not appreciative, then you might want to give them space.