How To Respond To A Breakup Over Text, Call Or Physical Approach

How To Respond To A Breakup Over Text, call or even on a physical approach

 

Did you just get dumped via text, Call or even physical approach/ behavior? What an awful way to end things! I know what you are going through; it’s rough. Just believe in yourself and you’ll get through this! Today, we will be looking at how to respond to a breakup over text, so you know exactly what to say to your boyfriend or girlfriend . This will help you keep your composure during this difficult time. No one enjoys being dumped.

Did you just get dumped via text, call or even physical approach? What an awful way to end things! I know what you are going through; it’s rough. Just believe in yourself and you’ll get through this! Today, we will be looking at how to respond to a breakup over text, so you know exactly what to say to your boyfriend. This will help you keep your composure during this difficult time. No one enjoys being dumped.

How To Respond To A Breakup Over Text

Basically we will be using the Text approach here , you can apply them on different approach as well depending where your break up  call is coming from. 

Please do not go into FIGHTING...

 "NO MAN OR WOMAN WORTH FIGHTING OVER LOVE FOR."

 

1. Thanks for letting me know!

Tell your ex via text message that you appreciate him letting you know that he wanted to break up with you. Your partner could have easily just given you the silent treatment. In my opinion, silence is worse than being broken up with via text messages. I’d rather know that my partner wants to end things than have to figure out the facts myself.

2. Let’s talk!

Send your ex this text message: “Can we talk about this, please?” You might really want to talk this over if you have no idea for what reason your partner is ending things, especially via text messages. Breaking up over text is the worst! You usually can’t get closure this way, an essential part of being ready for your next relationship. 

3. You don’t mean this!

Tell your ex via text that you think he is making a mistake. You don’t have to text words that sound like a threat, but you can explain that you are in utter disbelief in your response. Just text him a message stating that you don’t understand what changed his mind about your relationship or his feelings for you. 

4. ?

Send your ex a question mark via text message. This will show him that you don’t understand the reason he has decided to break up with you. This will give you a chance to possibly get an explanation for the completion of your relationship if you have no idea why he broke up with you. Hopefully, he will tell you why he wants to break up with you.

5. Is there someone else?

Ask your ex via text if there is someone else in the picture. You may need to ask this if you have no idea what’s going on in your romantic relationship. Why did he decide to do this all of a sudden, and why break up via text message? That’s pretty unfair for you because you can’t hear his tone of voice or ask follow-up questions easily.

6. Fine with me!

Tell your ex via text that this decision is fine with you if you are happy he decided to break up with you. If you are just lashing out in anger and really want to know the reason for the breakup, this may not be the best response for you. If he wanted to break up with you this way, he obviously had his reasons. Send him texts asking for the reason.

7. Is this really what you want?

Send your ex a text message saying, “Are you SURE you want to break up with me like this right now?” He may not realize how wrong he is in ending a relationship like this. Your text response is letting him know that you are not sure that he really wants to break up like this. Give him a chance to break up with you the right way.

8. Best of luck to you, then!

Tell your ex via text that you wish him all the best of luck for the future. There’s nothing wrong with this text message, provided you don’t send a ton of text messages after this one. You are basically saying that you are fine with his decision to break up with you and understand why, so don’t send a lot of text messages after this one. It’s too confusing.

9. When do you want to pick up your stuff?

Via text message, arrange to get your belongings swapped after he has sent you a text to break up with you. You don’t want anything to be out there lingering, and you should want to cease all connections with this person since they thought it was okay to break up with you via text message when really that’s a childish way to break up with someone.

10. Thank you for being honest with me.

Send your ex a text message stating that you are grateful for his honesty. He very well could not have said anything. Many guys think it’s okay to not text a girl anything but to instead avoid her at all costs. This “ghosting” behavior is even worse than a text breakup because you don’t know what the status of your relationship is.

12. I am okay with your desire to break up.

Tell your ex that you are perfectly fine by yourself. You were okay before you began this relationship, and you’ll be fine now that it’s over. You can express your independence in your text response. Just tell him you are glad he’s made this decision and want him to be happy, just like you will be. You don’t need him, especially if he is childish.

13. Goodbye!

Let your ex know that you are okay with the breakup and wish him all the luck in the world in finding a new relationship with someone better. Okay, you don’t have to text him all of that, but you could just say, “Goodbye!” That should get the point across. It might be smart to block him after this message so that you won’t have to read a stupid, immature comeback, which usually happens when someone is hurt or taken aback after a response to a breakup.