Scrutinize her past

 

   Scrutinize her past

Don't go and carry the burden of an over used woman

Don't go be the dumping ground of a yahoo boy, ritualists and what have you

Ask her about her past

And when you do,

Let her be sober while answering you

Let there be tears of remorse for her shameful past

Unless her past isn't smelly, then she should be smiling, laughing and funny with it

But if the past is as dirty and smelly as that of a soak away,

Don't continue with the conversation if after 5 minutes of her replies she isn't crying, sober and full of regrets.

Bro, don't be afraid to ask about her past

It's what defines a woman

Don't listen to those saying a matured man won't care about your past

Please don't be matured in this regard

After listening to her past,

It's your choice to agree to commit or walk away

But don't just jump into taking her serious when you haven't scrutinised her past

Be deliberate about your choice.

© Princewill Chimereze.